Feeling overwhelmed by your high-conflict family law matter?
The Chaos Compass Virtual Workshop can help.
when everything that matters is on the line
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You may be feeling a little lost. Like it’s a struggle to get through each day let alone make decisions about the future.
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You may desperately want to regain control of your life but feel like there are too many obstacles to overcome.
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It may be difficult to focus on the future because every day brings new drama and chaos that demands your attention.
Imagine If You Could…
Stop feeling like you are spinning and reclaim control of your life.
Learn how to manage your energy so you can effectively engage in your case without draining your life force.
Reconnect with your needs and wants so you can make informed decisions about the future.
Have a plan for approaching difficult situations.
Break free from your high-conflict ex.
Reestablish your confidence and self-esteem.
Feel strong and empowered when engaging in communication with your ex.
Reunite with your “old self” and remember how it feels to be truly happy.
Effectively manage the stress of your case.
Feel safe again.
Sound like a relief? It is.
This workshop was designed for you.
The Chaos Compass Virtual Workshop
Learn how to navigate the emotional chaos of a high-conflict family law matter in a fun and supportive environment.
For just $128 you'll get:
high-impact Group coaching & Q&A sessions (a $360 value)
We will meet once a week by Zoom to cover the modules outlined below. I know life is busy so I designed a flexible schedule that allows you to pick the day EACH week (Thursday or Saturday) that works for you.
a hard copy workbook, welcome pack, & weekly PDFs (a $95 value)
Sign up by September 28th and receive a hard copy of the Chaos Compass Workbook and specially curated Welcome Gift Pack in the mail! PLUS enjoy weekly PDF Action Packs to help you dive into each week's material.
Join us for the first ever, community-building, Sip & Share Night on October 27th from 6-7:30 PM. AND enjoy $75 off any of my services when you complete the Chaos Compass Workbook!
WHAT: A fun virtual workshop! See details below.
WHEN: Four sessions between Oct. 5th-Oct. 28th.
Thur. 6-7:30 PM or Sat. 8-9:30 AM
WHERE: Zoom
HOW (MUCH): An incredible value at $128!
WHY: To reclaim control of your life.
(BY) WHO: Jes Holst, Coach, Mediator, CDFA®
(FOR) WHO: Survivors of a high-conflict family law matter
What The Workshop Covers
Module One
STOP THE SPIN
Chaos “spin” cycles can be overwhelming, and feeling stuck and helpless is easy. However, you can break free from this pattern with the right tools and regain control over your life.
In Stop The Spin, you will learn how to identify the issues that keep you lost in the chaos “spin” cycle and practice new tools to overcome them.
By the end of this module, you will have a set of customized rituals that you can use to overcome spin cycles and improve your overall well-being.
Module Two
IDENTIFY YOUR NEEDS
In this module, you will learn how to identify areas of neglect and how to create sustainable self-care patterns that will help you create calm and achieve your goals.
By the end of the module, you will have a comprehensive self-care plan that is tailored to your needs, and the knowledge and skills to continue to adapt and refine your plan as your needs change over time.
Module Three
DEFINE YOUR WANTS
In this module, you will learn how to envision the life you want to live and develop a practical strategy to achieve it.
The course work will guide you through the process of identifying your goals and breaking them down into manageable steps. You will gain valuable insights into your own motivations and values, and learn how to align them with your long-term vision for your life.
Through group work and the Sip & Share Night, you will develop the skills and confidence needed to take action towards your dreams.
Module Four
ENGAGE YOUR EMPOWERMENT
In this module, we will explore the ways in which you can set healthy boundaries and live life on your terms.
You will also learn how to create opportunities for yourself and take advantage of them when they arise. By the end of this module, you will have the tools and knowledge necessary to promote yourself to a position of power and start living life on your terms.
Bonus Session
SIP & SHARE NIGHT
Sip and Share Night is a special evening for the members of our workshop to come together on Zoom, with their drink of choice in hand, and share the vision board they created in Module 3.
Community is a priceless element of this workshop and this night is designed to help you make connections, feel supported, and gain inspiration and motivation from others’ vision boards.
So mark your calendars, grab your drink, and get ready to celebrate our progress and accomplishments and connect in a fun, informal setting.
Things to Make This Fun & Exciting!
There's just no substitute to putting colorful pen to colorful paper! That's why I'm thrilled to offer all workshop attendees who sign up by September 28th a hard copy of the Chaos Compass Workbook to accompany the course material.
Not only will you leave the workshop feeling confident and empowered, but you'll also have a tangible resource that you can use to continue your growth and development in the future.
I’m so excited to offer attendees who sign up before September 28th a special bonus Welcome Pack to make the workshop even more enjoyable.
This specially curated pack includes a set of high-quality pens, a highlighter, stickers, and a pad of lined sticky notes to make it fun and easy to navigate the workshop materials.
Introducing the brand new weekly PDF Action Pack - This is the ultimate toolkit for those who want to take this workshop to the next level!
Each week of the workshop, you'll receive a pack of customizable tools that relate to that week's module.
You’ll learn how to implement the tools in the 90-minute coaching session, but you know what's the best part? You can keep these tools and reuse and customize them as your case evolves!
Ready to reclaim control of your life?
Meet the Teacher
Hi, I'm Jes. I empower my clients to make informed decisions that save them years of anguish and thousands in legal costs. I'm so glad you're here.
Having gone through a difficult divorce myself in 2019 while also studying to become an attorney, I gained valuable insights into clients' real problems in family law litigation. I noticed that many of my clients were struggling with financial challenges and extreme emotional turmoil. Yet, their attorneys, therapists, and financial advisors weren't providing them with the support they needed to navigate the unique issues connected to their case. As a result, many people were left emotionally, financially, and energetically devastated at the end of their matter. This didn’t feel right to me. I knew there was a better way.
I set out to become a certified divorce coach, co-parenting coach, certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA®), and high-conflict family law mediator to fill this gap and help people successfully restructure their lives after a family law matter.
This workshop was carefully designed to address the issues specific to high-conflict family law and ensure you leave the course feeling heard, educated, informed, and empowered.
Your case shouldn't ruin your life. In fact, with the right guidance, it can create positive change and personal growth. I know it is a radical perspective, but I am living proof that it's the real deal.
What Past Clients Have to Say
“I would never have emotionally survived divorcing my narcissistic ex without the transformational support of Jes Holst. Her clear understanding of the inner workings of the legal system, coupled with her depth of experience working with survivors of narcissistic abuse, makes her an invaluable resource. You will need her to help you navigate the daily mayhem that your abusive ex is throwing your way, but you will stay for her quick wit, her dry humor, and her fierce dedication to your empowerment and healing. Hire her immediately (if she's available!). She will change your life. She has absolutely changed mine.”
- Dr. M.M.
